A young couple finds that as they go through life's normal struggles there are large obstacles that needed to be overcome during their marriage. Both the wife and husband find that the majority of their problems are one sided. This has an affect not only on the husband and wife, but on the entire family to the point of making wrong decisions. It becomes a disaster for both of them. In Hawaii is where she met an elderly gentleman and his wife that helped her see the need to make some adjustments in her thinking. The advise she gained impacted her family's future happiness. We all face challenges, but this story helps us to see what we need to do to make the right decisions.