What other people think of me is none of my business. For over 40 years, I lived this halfway. Because generally speaking, it never matters to me what anyone thinks. But let's be clear. I've always cared what my parents, mentors, teachers, and colleagues think. It took my world shattering for me to realize that I've always been distracted by this outside noise. I had to make the conscious decision to tune it all out. To listen to my voice only. To pick up the pieces and find a way to put them together. And that's when things began to change. And through this journey, I realized that so many of us live life the way we think we're supposed to. The way others expect us to. Confining ourselves to their visions, rather than living our own. This is my story of self discovery, pain, loss, healing, persistence, and ultimately of learning to accept and embrace MY true self. I hope it helps you see your quirks as your strengths, and gives you the inspiration to turn your pain into your power.