Adapting a Zen state of mind, you learn to reset your focus towards self-discovery and awareness, both of which are vital to your spiritual growth in love. This book is intended to clear your mind, and create a new energy for the positive, joyful relationships you wish to be a part of. A healthy, successful, life requires staying real about your problems, because anything that wasn't real was never attainable in the first place. Marriage requires work, after all, love is effort. It takes rolling up your sleeves, grinding (applying the tools inside of you), and keeping control of your thoughts so you can stay in control of your actions. When we do the work on our self, joy can be present in every moment, and... that is when life happens!